Boundary confusion

Any confusion of responsibility and ownership in our lives is a problem of boundaries. Just as homeowners set physical property lines around their land, we need to set mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual boundaries for our lives to help us distinguish what is our responsibility and what isn’t.

p. 25, Boundaries, Cloud and Townsend, 1992.

Service learning

We give of ourselves, our resources, our love.
We give of our time and our smiles and our joy in those places and with those people that feel right to ius.
We don’t worry about what we’re going to get back while we’re giving.

pp. 366-367, journey to the heart, melody beattie

Life happens

Sometimes people do things that hurt us. People may have let us down, not protected us. People may have deceived us.
We live in a world with people who have a lot of issues.
We live in a world that moves fast and isn’t always kind, just or fair,
If we haven’t dealt with past betrayals, if we haven’t cleansed and healed those breaks lines on the heart, we won’t be able to deal with the betrayals going on right now.

p. 353, journey to the heart, melody beattie