Parenting

We seek the love of our children, but we should not expect their gratitude – at least not until they are grown up. Parenting is a responsibility, not an obligation. We will make mistakes, sometimes the very mistakes that our parents made with us – but we remain parents out of love.

p. 118, the Celtic Spirit, Caitlin Matthews

We are fragile creatures

Discovering more joy does not … save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak. In fact, we may cry more easily, but we will laugh more easily too. Perhaps we are just more alive. Yet as we discover more joy, we can face suffering in a way that ennobles rather than embitters. We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreak without being broken.
p. 12, The Book of Joy, Archbishop Desmond Tutu